8 Style Etiquette Rules Every Woman Should Know

Are flats acceptable at a formal event?

1. If you must, you may wear flats to a formal event.

While dress codes dictate that you must wear heels to an event, there’s nothing more unsightly than a woman wearing shoes she can’t walk in and it would be painful to watch her fumbling all over the venue. If you are more comfortable wearing flats then, by all means, go ahead. Choose your flats with care and ensure they are clean and chic. Here is an example of wearing flats with formal wear.

2. Know when and where to take your hat off.

If it’s a fashion hat you’re sporting, such as the hats Princesses Eugenie and Beatrice of York are commonly spotted wearing, then these are acceptable when indoors, at weddings, during formal events, garden parties, and at religious services. Be courteous enough to take your hat off when you're obstructing the view, such as at a wedding ceremony or at a theater, according to Emily Post. Of course, it’s unacceptable to wear casual caps (such as baseball caps) while indoors, during meal times, and when being introduced.


3. Take off your jewelry—including your wedding ring—when necessary.

The common notion when it comes to wearing jewelry is that it’s perfectly safe when it’s on you, which is why many women take their hardware everywhere they go, especially their wedding rings. But you should know when to leave your daily dazzle at home under lock and key. When engaging in physical activity, such as working out at the gym, it may be unsafe to take any form of jewelry with you. Ostentatious fine jewelry should be reserved for evening affairs. 

4. Instead of layering, follow the rule of thirds.

Everything in moderation, they say, and this includes the number of accessories you have on at any given time. Familiarize yourself with the third piece—this is the scarf, hat, belt, or coat that you wear over your standard top and bottom combination. The third piece adds a chic touch to the ensemble without overdoing it.

5. Don’t be intimidated by the brooch.

The brooch will never be passé, it simply dictates a set of styling tricks of its own. If it’s vintage, wear it with a modern silhouette to dress up a contemporary getup and at the same time keep yourself from looking dated. Also, it’s all about placement. Wear it either left or right and just over the bust. It, too, works well when pinned to the lapel of a custom-fitted blazer.

6. Dress appropriately for whatever the occasion and whatever the weather.

We may have to bend our signature uniforms every once in a while. Take note of the dress code when attending an event to show respect to the host, who probably went to great lengths to organize that gathering. One must also always be wary of the weather and the temperature of the day. You may check the morning news or ask your mobile phone’s built-in assistant (or your real assistant) for the weather forecast and then determine what you will wear from there.

7. Never scrunch up your sleeves.

It might be part of the overall look and feel of your ensemble but scrunching up your sleeves will always look sloppy. Instead, roll them up neatly. You may fold them twice or thrice and then pull them up your arm, carefully concealing the scrunched-up areas.

8. You may leave a maximum of two buttons undone on your shirt.

Anything more would look too relaxed and almost sloppy. Leaving the collar buttons might come off as too uptight. One is acceptable, and two buttons undone are enough to look laidback and approachable.

View More Articles About:
About The Author
Hannah Lazatin
Features Editor
Hannah is originally from Pampanga and from a big, close-knit family who likes to find a reason to get together at the dinner table. Experiences inspire her. “Once, at a restaurant, I received an interpretation of my second name ‘Celina,’ and it meant 'someone who tries everything once' and that is me through and through,” she says. As for the job, she wants her “readers to be inspired by the stories of the people we feature and to move them to reach for greater things.”
View Other Articles From Hannah
Latest Stories
The TV personality and lifestyle guru was seen having a good time while touring the metro.
The 157-acre empty lot was at one point the most expensive real estate listing in the world.
Oh, and without sacrificing style.
In a world where everything is industrially produced, it’s best to consider safe organic meat to ensure good health.
Thatcher Wine, celebrity bibliophile, shares his tips on collecting (and decorating) with books.
The royal couple's use of a private jet caused controversy-but after Elton John voiced his support for them, several more celebrities spoke up, too.
The lifestyle show host requested to take a photo with the kitchen staff.
It's time to update your listening library.
It's set in the tony New York City world of private-school parents.
"I feel a profound sense of obligation to protect Harry and his family from the unnecessary press intrusion that contributed to Diana’s untimely death," he said.
Load More Articles