Lizzie Zobel de Ayala Addresses New Graduates: Make The Right Choices in Life
Speaking before 50 Grade 6 and Senior High School graduates at Miriam College Nuvali recently, entrepreneur Elizabeth “Lizzie” Eder Zobel de Ayala, in her commencement speech, enjoined the youth to "be brave and do your part" for the country. Taking off on the school’s theme of bravery, it was a fitting send-off to the new graduates who will be moving up to High School and to College outside of Miriam College Nuvali, the school's second campus in Laguna.
Zobel de Ayala's speech was originally a letter she wrote to her four children, which was published as part of a collection by Summit Media, titled Letters to My Children. Here it is in its entirety.
Dear Mariana, Jaime Alfonso, Eugenia, and Mercedes,
In a life that is filled with beautiful possibilities, I know that you will agree with me that the choices you make shape the journey and, eventually, the people you will become. Listen to your heart and make these choices carefully for they must be deeply personal and driven by your own aspirations, not those of others. Know that the paths you choose will require perseverance and discipline but, above all, they will require a sense of responsibility—to yourself and towards others.
Be responsible, to yourself. Sign up for life. Seek to find your passion and pursue it without restraint. You will need to be brave—take on as many experiences as possible and immerse yourself in those that you find meaningful. Finding meaning in the work you do will cue you where your passion lie. But know that, although you will feel enormous happiness when the results of your hard work are positive, inevitably some of the task involved in getting the job done will be at times tedious and uninteresting. Remember always that happiness in life is not spread along one single continuum. Fortunately, there are moments of extraordinary happiness and you should not confuse the tediousness of some of these task with unhappiness. They will simply serve to get the job done.
Be responsible, towards others. Remain cognizant that as much as our choices affect us, they will most definitely affect others. We form a part of an extraordinary community that strives to provide us with a sense of possibility. Remember that these possibilities have been
Always persevere. Although the contradictions and challenges may seem overwhelming, there are solutions and they become more apparent when we realize that it’s the work of many that will build a nation that provides opportunities and where possibilities are real. There
My thoughts are abundant with admiration and love for the wonderful human beings that you are. I cannot end this brief letter without saying that I feel that “I am preaching to the choir”. I have learned more from your grit, perseverance, and compassion than I could ever hope for. You make me very proud. But, if these words serve as a reminder of how significant it is to find meaning will ultimately come from serving your larger community, my heart is with you. Remain brave and always true, but mostly deeply compassionate.
Lizzie is a co-founder and chairman of the Teach for the Philippines, an organization that works to provide Filipino children with inclusive, relevant, and excellent education. She is a member of the Board of Trustees of the Center for Asian Philanthropy and Society, board member of the Population Council, and a founding member of both Friendly Care Foundation and Forum for Family Planning and Development. For nine years, she served as a presidential appointed Board Member of the Philippine National Museum. Lizzie is married to Jaime Augusto Zobel de Ayala, chairman
*This story originally appeared on Smartparenting.com.ph
*Minor edits have been made by the Townandcountry.ph editors