I was always sort of aware of Mary Hilliard. I would see her name next to photographs of people with boldfaced names in Women’s Wear Daily and other publications that I would pour over as a student at Parsons School of Design and, later, as a young designer on Seventh Avenue.
At the few truly fancy New York events that I did manage to worm my way into, I would notice her quietly doing her job, either just inside the entrance, taking pictures of the arriving swells (never me) or gently weaving her way through the crowd until she discovered something worthy of her film and flash.
It wasn’t until more than a decade later that I really got to know her, working together at a Palm Beach wedding that I was asked to help plan. I was smitten, not only by her easygoing
She attended one of my book signings at the Preservation Foundation of Palm Beach, a terrific organization whose mission is to preserve Palm Beach’s architectural and cultural heritage. The book was a success, in part due to the cover photo, and when she came over to hug me I said, "Someone needs to do a book on
"Oh, come on," she answered. "No one would be interested in that."
Thankfully, someone was. It was Hilliard who needed further convincing. Suffice to say that after some significant nagging, she relented, so long as I would help sort through the photos and curate the exhibit.
Gianni Versace, John F. Kennedy, Jr., and Paul Wilmot at Versace’s New York City townhouse in 1996.
Going through her photos was like going through yearbooks, but rather than high school, it was high society. The end result: "Places & Faces: The Photography of Mary Hilliard" will open at the Preservation Foundation of Palm Beach on January 8. "Fashion and philanthropy have long played a role in the social history of Palm Beach," says Amanda Skier, executive director of the Preservation Foundation of Palm Beach. "Mary's work beautifully documents the lives of those who are at the forefront of that culture."
Though she is often compared to other iconic chroniclers of society such as Slim Aarons and Bill Cunningham, Hilliard will flatly dismiss any such association with her trademark mix of southern charm and genuine modesty. Of Cunningham, she says: "While we all were primarily sent to capture lifestyle and celebrity, Bill was a journalist first, photographer second, and brilliant at both." He was also a dear friend of hers.
And Aarons? "Slim’s shots were carefully composed. I have always worked more spontaneously, except for maybe a wedding, where you do have to set things up."
Madonna, Donatella Versace, and Sir Elton John at the Met in 1997
To call Hilliard a wedding photographer would be like calling Coco Chanel a dressmaker. Over a career spanning four decades, she has documented some of the most famous people and extraordinary events imaginable, from Malcolm Forbes's 70th birthday extravaganza in Morocco to the celebrity circus that is the Metropolitan Museum of Art's annual Costume Institute Gala. In between, she began working the mosh pit at runway shows as well as scores of lavish events that were born out of the 1980s "Nouvelle Society" and continue to this day.
And while Hilliard maintains that she has never been more than the visual equivalent of a hired hack, her subjects would disagree. Indeed, whenever her name is mentioned, words like "discreet," "trusted," and "flattering" get repeated over and over again. Even those who typically avoided the camera rarely said no to her. "I don’t take grotesque pictures," she said, in a rare profile written about her several years ago.
Rarer still has been
She knew that she had a knack for photography, so she bought a Nikkormat camera and took classes at the Camera Club of New York. Her first published photograph was one of her son's school field trips to the Little Red Lighthouse under the George Washington Bridge. It is "Item #1" in a collection that now holds more than 100,000 images.
Hilliard’s breakout moment occurred when a friend asked her to shoot a Giorgio Sant'Angelo runway show. The results were so good that they led to subsequent bookings, furthered along by the support of Sally Kirkland, a fashion editor at Vogue and Life magazines.
Liz Tilberis and Cindy Crawford at the Donna Karen showroom in 1992.
Through Kirkland, Hilliard was introduced to New York’s fashion elite. Designers such as Bill Blass, Oscar de la Renta, and Calvin Klein welcomed Hilliard and her camera into their studios and, more importantly, their shows. Over time, she became a regular, albeit
An editor at a new magazine named Avenue noticed Hilliard’s
"A long neck helps," she laughs. But even those who weren’t the least bit swanlike still appeared elegant, svelte, and youthful—and the clothes looked terrific.
Pat and William F. Buckley, Jr. on flight From Tangier, Morocco to New York in 1989.
This combination of well-bred manners and an antenna for beauty and fashion established Hilliard as a New York society insider, and ultimately one of the most sought-after photographers on the scene. Along with the Metropolitan Museum of Art’s Costume Institute Gala, her recurring coverage of the New York Public Library’s Library Lions awards and the American Ballet Theatre’s Spring Gala appeared regularly in the pages of Vogue, Town & Country, Women’s Wear Daily, and the New York Times Magazine, along with Avenue and Quest, magazines in which her work continues to appear. She still accepts the occasional booking, but only for longtime clients and friends.
"I always wished to be a fly on the wall, to watch but not participate," she says. This reluctance to be noticed, along with her patrician Coconut Grove, Florida upbringing, is what has defined Mary Hilliard and her body of work. It is indeed the ultimate irony that the majority of her subjects are some of the most noticed people in the world.
"Places & Faces: The Photography of Mary Hilliard" will be open to the public from January 8 through February 16 at the Preservation Foundation of Palm Beach at 311 Peruvian Avenue (palmbeachpreservation.org). A limited number of signed photographs will be sold to benefit the Preservation Foundation of Palm Beach.
This story originally appeared on Townandcountrymag.com.
* Minor edits have been made by the Townandcountry.ph editors.