Why It's Okay For Harry and Meghan to Hold Hands in Public, But Not Will and Kate
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In fact, in their five years of marriage, the Duke and Duchess have only ever been photographed so much as holding hands a handful of times. Once, when William led Kate out of Westminster Abbey by the hand (as is royal protocol), then when the two walked hand-in-hand to their awaiting helicopter to fly off on honeymoon.
Those keeping an eye on royal-couple-to-be, Meghan Markle and Prince Harry, might have been shocked to see them acting very casually—holding hands, kissing each other on the cheek, and even stealing a kiss on the lips.
So why the double-standard? Why are Prince Harry and Meghan allowed to act out their various bouts of PDA, whilst Kate and William are confined to a formal foot of distance?
Well, it has to do with a few things.
One: The Duke and Duchess are more visible
While Harry and Meghan are very much in the public eye and are hounded by paparazzi at every turn, they aren't quite in the position that the Duke and Duchess are in. Eventually, William and Kate will be made King and Queen (Consort), and the sanctity of the monarch's station—which has rested safely with a very decorous and proper Queen Elizabeth II for upwards of 65 years—will fall to them. Therefore, unlike a rebellious younger brother, must act every inch the royal couple all the time.
Harry, on the other hand, will be sixth in line to the throne after Kate's third child is born, meaning that his position, while still extremely visible and important, is not quite as important. For
Two: The Duke and Duchess have less to prove
After five years of marriage and two, soon to be three, children, Kate and William are very much steady in their relationship. They're relatively unshakeable and as Robin Kermode, a body language expert, notes to The Independent, they "do not feel the need to prove their love."
"Some public figures use hand-holding as a deliberate act to prove that their relationship is solid, but this isn't something Prince William and Kate struggle with," reads the report.
And it's not as if Meghan and Harry are out to "prove" anything specifically, but they are in the early days of their engagement, where embracing and kissing your significant other is more common. Kate and William, after all, did too when they were in university.
And because Meghan is not yet an official , she doesn't really have to act in any certain way, unlike Kate, who is a Duchess.
Will Meghan and Harry's PDA continue the further they get into their engagement? Only time will tell.
From: Harper's BAZAAR AU
This story originally appeared on Townandcountrymag.com.
* Minor edits have been made by the Townandcountry.ph editors.